Orders of Protection in Divorce

I am getting divorced, should I file for an Order of Protection? 

If you fear for your immediate safety or are in danger due to domestic violence, do not wait—call 911 right away. Law enforcement can intervene to ensure your protection and help you access emergency resources, such as shelter or medical care. While seeking an Order of Protection is an important legal step, your first priority should always be your immediate safety and the immediate safety of your children. The police can also assist you in filing for an Order of Protection once you are safe. If you are ever unsure about your safety, don’t hesitate to call for help before taking any legal action 

Divorce can be a challenging process where emotions are heightened, especially when it involves concerns about safety or abuse. In Tennessee, one tool to ensure the safety of a party during a divorce is petitioning the court for an Order of Protection. For individuals in need of immediate legal relief from domestic abuse, stalking, or threats of harm, an Order of Protection offers crucial protections. 

What is an Order of Protection? 

An Order of Protection is a court-issued document designed to prevent an abuser from continuing harmful behavior. The Order of Protection can grant various protections, such as prohibiting the abuser from contacting or approaching you, giving you exclusive possession of your residence, awarding you temporary sole custody of minor children, ordering counseling or financial support, directing the care of pets, etc.¹  

However, these protections do not go into effect until the abuser has been served with a copy of the ex parte Order of Protection.² Once they have been served, if your abuser violates the order of protection, they can be arrested. 

Who can file for an Order of Protection? 

In Tennessee, any domestic abuse victim, stalking victim, or sexual assault victim who has been subjected to, threatened with, or placed in fear of, domestic abuse, stalking, sexual exploitation of a minor, sexual assault, or a human trafficking offense may file for an order of protection.³ 

It is important to note that anyone who has experienced sexual assault or stalking may file for a Petition for an Order of Protection, regardless of your relationship with the perpetrator.⁴ However, in order to meet the statutory requirements for an Order of Protection for domestic abuse, there must be a relationship between you and the abuser, i.e. current or former spouses, people who live together or have lived together in the past, people who are dating or have dated, people who have had sexual relationships with the other, relatives by blood or adoption or previous marriage, etc.⁵ 

Under Tennessee law, there are four categories as to what can constitute domestic abuse⁶ that would warrant an Order of Protection: 

1. Purposefully physically hurting or attempting to hurt someone physically (accidents do not count)  

2. Making the person fear physical harm or physical restraint, or physically restraining someone 

3. Maliciously damaging someone’s personal property 

4. Intentionally financially abusing⁷ someone, meaning behavior that is coercive, deceptive, or that unreasonably controls or restrains a person’s ability to acquire, use, or maintain economic resources to which the person is entitled 

1. This includes using coercion, fraud, or manipulation to restrict a person’s access to money, assets credit, or financial information; unfairly utilizing a person’s economic resources to gain an advantage; or exerting undue influence over a person’s financial behavior or decisions, including forcing default on joint or other financial obligations, etc. 

How to File for an Order of Protection? 

To request an Order of Protection in Tennessee, a person must file a Petition for an Order of Protection in the county where the abuser lives, the county where the abuse occurred, or the county in which you live if your abuser lives outside of the state of Tennessee.⁸ It is important when filing to give the court as much information as possible regarding what you have experienced.  

Each county has slightly different procedures for filing a Petition. Generally speaking, this can be done at the county’s General Sessions’ Clerk’s Office. If it is after hours, your local police should be able to assist you in filing your petition. You can also retain an attorney and request that they file a Petition for an Order of Protection on your behalf. 
 

Should I wait to request an Order of Protection until after I have filed for a divorce? 

An Order of Protection can have significant implications during a divorce, particularly in cases involving children. If children are involved, the court may take into account any history of domestic violence when determining custody and visitation. Generally speaking, the longer you wait to file an Order of Protection, the more likely a judge will question why you waited. However, there are pros and cons as to when you should decide to file for an Order of Protection, and a skilled family law attorney can help navigate the complex process and protect your rights. 

Should I retain an attorney? 

Whether you are seeking an Order of Protection or defending yourself against one, retaining experienced legal counsel is critical. The stakes can be high in divorce cases, and this is especially true when domestic violence or allegations of abuse are involved.  

Additionally, it is important to note that statutorily, if you are successful in obtaining an Order of Protection, the Court will also order the abuser to pay your court costs, filing fees, litigation taxes, and attorney’s fees.⁹ 

If you’re considering filing for divorce in Tennessee and have concerns about domestic abuse or harassment, do not hesitate to seek legal advice. An Order of Protection may be an essential step in protecting yourself and your family.  Schedule a consultation with a trusted attorney today to discuss your case and explore your options. Taking this crucial step can help ensure that you have the support and guidance necessary to navigate the legal process and protect your interests. Contact Cole Law now at 615-490-6020. 

1 T.C.A. § 36-3-606

2 T.C.A. § 36-3-611

3 T.C.A. § 36-3-602

4 T.C.A. § 36-3-601(11)-(12)

5 T.C.A. § 36-3-601(5)

6 T.C.A. § 36-3-601(1)

7 T.C.A. § 36-3-601(6)

8 T.C.A. § 36-3-602(c)

9 T.C.A. § 36-3-117